I remember before asking to make all posts available to all members(I think) and now when I am posting something, I would like it to be specific to the VIP members but it is currently checked and greyed out so I'm in need of a bit of help with the settings. I would like it to be a choice again. Thank you.
When you draft a blog post, you have the option of marking it as Premium, and thus restricting it to your premium members:
Can you tell me specifically where you are seeing it greyed out? A screen shot that includes an URL might be helpful.
Looks like you might have set up clips to be only viewed by premium members. If you go here: https://www.hisadvocates.org/cp/clip-settings and scroll down, you'll see that you have checked the box for "Mark All Clips As Premium". If you uncheck that box and then save the settings, you'll be able to choose each time you post a clip.