There is no mechanism built into Hoop.la that allows you to add menu items to the members menu. This menu, like all of the other stock menus, are vital to the functionality of the site, and as such we do not allow site administrators to add/change items within these menus. You will notice the same thing for all other stock menus with drop downs.
You can use CSS to hide existing items in the menu, but there is no way to add/inject menu items currently. You may want to consider adding a custom menu item which you could place before the "ABOUT" menu item, that would allow you to expose the menu items you are looking for. You can even use CSS to hide that menu item when the viewer is not a logged in user (using the .h-viewed-by-guest class which is applied to the body of the page when a guest is viewing the site).
I know this is not the answer you were looking for, but I hope the information I included above helps give you some options.